Homeschool and parenting as a passion October 10, 2007
For me, I’m passionately learning to make time to read the books I enjoy because it fills my cup. I’m passionately learning to be a better mom. Each day, my older child achieves an age that I’ve never “mothered” before. Each day is new and interesting and enormously challenging- -but enormously rewarding. I am passionately learning how to budget my time–my largest resource–so that I am a better home manager (my husband might be the President, but I am the CEO, the CFO, and the COO, and I’m the one with veto power!). By choosing to stay home and educate my kids, I am passionately learning how model for them the things I want them to learn, like love of reading, love of learning, a love for nature and all the beauty around us, love of hard work (okay, we’re really struggling here), love and compassion for others, how to serve, help and bless others, how to seek truth, how to stand by their values, how to be courageous, how to be humble, and how to be passionate learners themselves of what it is they want to learn. And I am passionately learning how to sacrifice some of my desires, wants, and needs to make these things happen for my children because I know that one day, in the not too distant future they will leave my nest, hopefully in the form of the men I know they can be, and I’ll have all the time in the world to continue to work on the things I want to do. So while I absolutely applaud that you are learning to play the piano (BTW, I have some great piano music I can share with you, if you like), and frankly I believe the greatest way to teach our children to become independent learners who enjoy learning, is to model learning–to learn something ourselves (even surreptitiously) while they observe us. To accept setbacks graciously on the days we struggle, without giving up, of course, and to enjoy and share our triumphs with them when we succeed. Then they see how it’s done. But I think you, and all of us, are passionately learning more than we can ever begin to quantify. And I believe that when we perceive our job as mothers/educators in this light, we begin to feel more rewarded for our efforts than otherwise possible.Joy to all!
Lorayne